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What Happened in Group March 2014

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Happy Happy  Spring Equinox Everyone!

The weather in New York cooperated today by giving us a taste of things to come with a 50 degree, sunny day .  Yes, Spring is officially here. The flower beds are showing signs of the bulbs starting to pop out of the earth and the buds on some trees are visible!  Yay!!!!!

We had a wonderful Group on Sunday March 16th. Present were Veronica, Merrill, Paula, Gladys, Lillian and Harriet.

We had enough time to have two full  session exchanges, an energy healing  circle for friends and loved ones who were not present with us and we had a long and wonderful Group Repatterning at the end with Infinity Healing as the final modality.

The Group Repatterning used the material authored by Gail Glanville in her Goldilocks Principle. This material  is available to one and all by clicking on the picture right here in the Newsletter.

We helped to clear all of our Rejection issues.. It was a great clearing.

Our next Group will be in June and I need to know ASAP whether Group members can come on Sunday June 1st or Sunday June 8th so we can set the date early this time for everyone.

That’s all for now!  Enjoy our new season.

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Music and Repatterning- A Great Spring Weekend

At the end of  January 2013 I posted an article about my very satisfying weekend which included, amongst other things, some amazing group Repatterning work I was privileged to facillitate  and attending some satisfying jazz sets.

This past weekend had similarities but with the addition of glorious Spring, all of the events seemed a little more joyous.

Once again on  Saturday I was invited by my dear friend and colleague to do a special Spring Forward Group with  her interested psychotherapy clients and acquaintances .

This time there were eight participants in the group and half of them had been in the January session. Several of the new people had never heard of energy healing or Resonance Repatterning. With the wonderful energy of my colleague and her home as our foundation, we quickly entrained with each other.

The repatterning was based on the new work  written by Gail Glanville,  The Goldilocks Principle, that I described last week . Anyone, anywhere can access this for free by clicking on the picture of the porridge bowl shown on this blog.

It was the first time I had used this incisive material with a group.

The content of the session touched everyone very deeply as many of the statements were involved on both spirit level and physical levels. We all know that a physical level involves the physical body, but what you may not be aware of is that in Repatterning when a spirit level is involved with material it means that a place of great and long standing resignation in a person is accessed and the person is ready to infuse new light into what was a deep dark place .

The intentions that were energized by and for the group can be viewed on the Love From NYC page above  this post or by clicking here https://merylchodoshweiss.com/anonymous-service-page/

Once again one of the most exciting parts of the session for me as the practitioner was my  muscle checking to use Infinity Healing as the six  minute modality to finalize the energy shifts and energize the new intentions..

Infinity Healing energy was transmitted  to each individual according to the dictates each person’s higher self.

Here is the text that one participant sent to my colleague the next day “Perfecto, parfait, perfect- tell Meryl she was right on the money–Omg  I am feeling so good–slept like crazy after infinity healing. Am a new person! Please tell Meryl”

The night before the Group Repatterning I attended the jazz and supper club that I had last attended in 1988. It was Augie’s on the Upper West Side then. Since 1998 the space has been known as Smoke Jazz and Supper club. Two of the performers were favorites of mine- Vincent Herring on the sax, and fabulous Cyrus Chestnut playing a georgous Steinway piano as only he can. The bass was played by a woman Brandi Disterheft and the drums by Joe Farnsworth. The  performance was being recorded for a new CD.

Last, but not least was a  Jazz brunch  at the georgous Robert restaurant at Columbus Circle that I first experienced last summer. Once again the Rob Dugay Trio was playing smooth and mellow music while we basked in the beauty of the venue and the views of the city.. Rob Dugay was on the bass, the pianist was Justin Kauflin and the drums were by Nadav Snir-Zeniker.

I realize that it has been a long time since I wrote about any of the amazing live musical performances I have attended since the end of January.

I was hoping to catch up one of these weeks with more complete descriptions of my musical experiences, both classical and jazz, but I just discovered that several past events that I had listed on my i phone calender seem to have disappeared from my listings so I need more time to match my pictures with the events and descriptions.

I have attended a lot of jazz and a whole subscription series to both the New York Philharmonic and the Chamber Music Society of Lincoln Center.

I have no pictures from the Philharmonic but I particularly enjoyed the amazing control of the range of sound from the softest notes to the loudest crescendos the orchestra produced while playing an all Beethoven concert with Radu Lupu as pianist and Christoph von Dohanyl  conducting. As a Beethoven fan I noticed how very different the phrasing, emphasis and measured qualities varied conductors elicit from the same orchestra and the same musical compositions.

The New York Times review of the concert perfectly describes what I perceived. www.nytimes.com/2013/02/02/arts/music/new-york-philharmonic-led-by-christoph-von-dohnanyi.html?adxnnl=1&ref=christophvondohnanyi&adxnnlx=1367374226-hmpI9+KvV5GQqaSDZ2Z6iw

From March 21-31, 2013 New York  classical radio WQXR presented every single piece of Bach’s music as their complete programming.  I was able to attend a wonderful all Bach concert conducted by Bernard Labadie with the violin soloist Isabel Faust. you can click here to listen to see her perform in a small concert at the radio station Greene Room http://www.wqxr.org/#!/articles/wqxr-features/2013/mar/26/cafe-concert-isabelle-faust/.  The New York Times  reviewer did not enjoy this concert as much as I did.

What was most interesting to me about the concert I attended with Andreas Schiff as both the conductor and pianist was the particular subtlety with which he used his pianist hands when he was the  conductor. There was such expressiveness in how he used his hands to mold the quality of the sounds the orchestra members produced.

My very favorite concert of my classical year was a performance produced by the Chamber Society of Lincoln Center. It featured eight cello players . The sound of the cello is so rich and it touches not only the depth of my heart, but it seems to resonate with the very core of my expressive self. There was tremendous variety in the musical pieces performed. The audience responded so enthusiastically and I believe that the only time I have ever seen Alice Tully Hall of Lincoln Center so filled is when the Society does its annual December performance of all of Bach’s Brandenburg Concertos.  Here is what the New York Times had to offer about the concert.www.nytimes.com/2013/04/24/arts/music/the-cellists-of-lincoln-center-at-alice-tully-hall.html

Finally, for your visual pleasure, here is a slideshow of my pictures updating the progress of Spring in Central Park and the City,  Smoke Jazz club, Robert’s and the view from there of Central Park, and finally the beautiful wisteria whose appearance and beauty brought tears to my eyes today. Life is really good!

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The Goldilocks Principle- New Work by Gail Glanville

It is with great pleasure and excitement that I am passing on to you a new piece of work written by Resonance Repatterning Certified Practitioner Gail Glanville.

Gail is one of the primary authors of the Nun Karma Repatterning that you can always download for free from this Newsletter . Amongst many other accomplishments she is also the author of  Food Re-Patterning & Sacred Relationships.

To my delight I received an e-mail from her on April 6th which  describes her new work. I have reprinted this below my own message here so you can experience some of the power of the work for yourself.

I have been using the new work with several of my clients for the past two weeks. Here is the testimony that I sent on to Gail yesterday.

The Goldilocks Principle goes beyond the cutting edge of what is new and powerful to use with Resonance Repatterning. Its energetic potential for transformation is unlimited – because it taps into ancient behavior patterns that are primal and basic and still unique to each one of us.

It contains a perspective and emotional complexity aligned with the changes we are experiencing on our planet right now.

I consider this a new technique and have so far seen amazing results with my clients.

I urge you to consider sessions with Gail’s package of three and I recommend that all Repatterning practitioners begin at once to use this with your clients and on yourself.”

Not only is using this work yielding amazing results, but I am thrilled to be able to report that its creation seems to be at least in part results derived from an Infinity Healing session! Isn’t That Cool?!

Here is what Gail wrote to me:

When Meryl gave me an INFINITY session last winter, I was a bit anxious and wondered what it would be like. Once I relaxed into the guided visualization and her energetic support, I was lifted up to higher dimensions. I had a knowing then that certain things in my life would drop away and leave room for something new. I hadn’t a clue what that might be and sort of forgot about the session.
Now some 3 months later, there has been significant change. Funding has dried up for a non-profit client I had been writing for out of a sense of obligation rather than passion. What a relief! Then inspiration came to write The Goldilocks Principle, a simple self-help book designed to improve relationships that has gotten an immediate response. And I’ve found the courage to do something I’ve wanted to do for a long time…move to the light and warmth of southeast Florida.
Now I can see the connection. I’m here to tell you that when you want to make a significant change in your life, Meryl’s INFINITY sessions yield surprising results!

Here is the original email that Gail sent out from her company Change Bistro and underneath the Nun Karma Repatterning on this website you can now download the new no-cost e-book The Goldilocks Principle.



Hey Goldilocks!

What do you know about the

3 Big Bears of Bad Relationships?

Let’s open the book and read their story.

Their names are:

Control Bear, Deprivation Bear and Rejection Bear.

Years ago, when I first met them, I thought the Control Bear was running my life, turning me into a rebel or looking for people who were comfortably controlling or seeking to be controlled.

Then I spotted the Deprivation Bear, and realized how hard it was to recognize what I really needed and trust that I could ask for help to lift my silent suffering.

But in the end, I had to acknowledge that just one swipe from the critical Rejection Bear stopped me cold, closed my heart and sent me into hiding. Or I took the opposite tack and lashed out, feeling utterly disconnected from the field of love.

So there you have them.

The 3 Big Bears of Bad Relationships: Control, Deprivation and Rejection.

They have a close kinship to each other. Maybe they’ve been in your life, one or all of them, for a very long time.

More than likely, they show up in your family history and generational patterns, in Nun Karma and emotional eating.

You may even be keeping them close out of unconscious loyalty to your entire family system.

So with these old and powerful Bears taking up space in your life, what chance do you have for a healthy relationship today, (especially in the post-2012 new energy which doesn’t love these old patterns)?

That’s why the 3 Big Bears are not to be sniffed at.

Or stuffed.

Or played around with.

And here’s why they’re so dangerous for your native Goldilocks persona.

There’s actually a part of you that is comfortable with their presence and unconsciously invites them into your life, into your home and even into your heart.

Wait! Before this happens to you AGAIN, try my “Hey Goldilocks!” Series of 3 Repatterning sessions.

So that these 3 Big Bears—

—well, so that YOU learn to name them, claim them and tame them!

In other words, Repattern them into submission!

So you, Goldilocks, wake up, stop resonating with the 3 Bears’ ancient presence in your life and step into some fresh new energy relationship stories all your own.

Because the better story is to resonate with the benefits and lessons and opportunities each Bear holds for you.

That’s what I can help you with as a Repatterning practitioner.

That’s what you can read about in this short no-cost download, THE GOLDILOCKS PRINCIPLE.

And that’s what you’ll get with the GOLDILOCKS SERIES of 3 private sessions to name, claim and tame the 3 Big Bears of Bad Relationships.

When the Bears show up in your life, please know that’s a sign of gifts waiting for you from the new energy field of truth and love.

And you want to know a secret?

You have to tame these Bears in order to sustain the open flow of love and energy in this new field.

Wouldn’t you like to start now?

1. No-Cost Download:
The Goldilocks Principle

Learn all about taming the 3 Bears, the real story of Goldilocks’ happy ending and what The Goldilocks Principle (it’s real) holds for you today.

By appointment
Session 1 Control Bear’s Opportunities
Session 2 Deprivation Bear’s Opportunities
Session 3 Rejection Bear’s Opportunities

Wouldn’t you love to tame these Bears before they take all your money, honey, joy and self-esteem?

I’d love to help you do it! Contact me now for an appointment.

Gail 401 654 1565